Kurangiza ni cyo gice kiryoha kikanashimisha mu gukora imibonano. Nyamara usanga abagore bamwe bavuga ko batazi uko kurangiza bimera, abandi bakavuga ko kurangiza nta cyo bimaze icya ngombwa ari uko ushimisha umugabo wawe. Ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko abagore 30% babaho batararangiza na rimwe mu buzima bwabo.
Bamwe bavuga ko gukora imibonano nturangize bitera uburwayi bunyuranye ariko nanone ntibasobanure neza uko bihura.
Mu nkuru zacu zinyuranye twavuzemo impamvu zitera umugore kutarangiza, tuvugamo ibafasha umugore kurangiza.
Muri iyi nkuru tugiye kurebera hamwe ingaruka ziba ku mugore ukora imibonano ntarangize.
Hari inkuru twavuze ku buryo abagabo bajya bababara amabya iyo bashatse gukora imibonano ntibayikore. Abagore nabo ibintu nk’ibyo bibabaho iyo bakoze imibonano ntibarangize. Nkuko impuguke zo muri University of California zibitangaza, iyo umugore agize ubushake bwo gukora imibonano, igitsina cye, rugongo, umura ndetse n’imirerantanga birabyimba kubera biba byagiyemo amaraso menshi. Iyo atarangije rero ya maraso atinda kuvamo nuko akaba yaribwa mu kiziba cy’inda, ndetse rimwe na rimwe n’umugongo ukababara. Ibi iyo bitinze kwikiza ashobora guhabwa imiti ibyimbura ikanagabanya ububabare.
Aha wenda wabyumvamo gukabya ariko ubusanzwe iyo umugore akoze imibonano, amasohoro yose si ko amugumamo hari asohoka. Umugore utarangije rero hafi ya yose arasohoka mu gihe iyo yarangije hasohoka ducye cyane. Niyo mpamvu kutarangiza byatuma utinda gusama kuko amasohoro arimo intanga menshi aba yisohokeye
Nibyo koko ubusanzwe uko urangiza kenshi ni na ko ubushake bwiyongera. Uzasanga abagore benshi bavuga ko iyo babikoze babishaka bakarangiza, ubwo bushake bugaruka vuba. Iyo rero atarangiza, bwa bushake bugenda bugabanyuka kugera igihe ashobora no kubaho atabishaka na gacye rwose. Ku bagore batagira ubushake bw’imibonano, umwe mu miti ni ugukora imibonano kenshi, kuko uko ubikora kenshi ukarangiza niko byongera iruba
Ongera usome iyi nkuru: Mugore dore ibyiza wungukira mu kurangiza
Ibi byo bizwi na benshi ko umugore utarangije ahorana umunabi n’umushiha. Ibi kandi bigendana na kwa kuribwa no kubabara. Nkuko Naomi Wolf abivuga, abagore batarangiza bahorana agahinda, umunabi, kwiheba no kwigunga kenshi bituruka ku igabanyuka rya dopamine. Ibi binatera kwitakariza icyizere wumva ko utameze nk’abandi cyangwa ko umugabo wawe adashoboye, bikaba byanaviramo bamwe gucana inyuma bajya kumva niba hari uwatuma babasha koko kurangiza nk’uko babyumvana abandi
Ubushakashatsi bunyuranye bwakozwe na Joann Ellison Rodgers bwerekana ko kurangiza bigabanya ibyago byo kwandura mikorobi zinyuranye cyane cyane ubwandu bw’umuyoboro w’inkari aho bituma mikorobi mbi zisohoka mu gitsina. Iyo rero utarangije izi mikorobi zibona indiri yazo nuko ibyago byo guhorana ubu bwandu bikiyongera
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Kurangiza ni byiza ku mpande zombi[/caption]
Kurangiza ni byiza haba ku mugore no ku mugabo. Ku mugore bimwongerera ibyishimo, bimurinda ibi tumaze kuvuga hejuru hano naho ku mugabo bimwongerera agaciro n’ishema mu rugo kandi erega gufatanya n’undi urugendo ukamusiga mu nzira ni ubugwari.
Bamwe bavuga ko gukora imibonano nturangize bitera uburwayi bunyuranye ariko nanone ntibasobanure neza uko bihura.
Mu nkuru zacu zinyuranye twavuzemo impamvu zitera umugore kutarangiza, tuvugamo ibafasha umugore kurangiza.
Muri iyi nkuru tugiye kurebera hamwe ingaruka ziba ku mugore ukora imibonano ntarangize.
Kuribwa
Hari inkuru twavuze ku buryo abagabo bajya bababara amabya iyo bashatse gukora imibonano ntibayikore. Abagore nabo ibintu nk’ibyo bibabaho iyo bakoze imibonano ntibarangize. Nkuko impuguke zo muri University of California zibitangaza, iyo umugore agize ubushake bwo gukora imibonano, igitsina cye, rugongo, umura ndetse n’imirerantanga birabyimba kubera biba byagiyemo amaraso menshi. Iyo atarangije rero ya maraso atinda kuvamo nuko akaba yaribwa mu kiziba cy’inda, ndetse rimwe na rimwe n’umugongo ukababara. Ibi iyo bitinze kwikiza ashobora guhabwa imiti ibyimbura ikanagabanya ububabare.
Gutinda gusama
Aha wenda wabyumvamo gukabya ariko ubusanzwe iyo umugore akoze imibonano, amasohoro yose si ko amugumamo hari asohoka. Umugore utarangije rero hafi ya yose arasohoka mu gihe iyo yarangije hasohoka ducye cyane. Niyo mpamvu kutarangiza byatuma utinda gusama kuko amasohoro arimo intanga menshi aba yisohokeye
Kubura ubushake
Nibyo koko ubusanzwe uko urangiza kenshi ni na ko ubushake bwiyongera. Uzasanga abagore benshi bavuga ko iyo babikoze babishaka bakarangiza, ubwo bushake bugaruka vuba. Iyo rero atarangiza, bwa bushake bugenda bugabanyuka kugera igihe ashobora no kubaho atabishaka na gacye rwose. Ku bagore batagira ubushake bw’imibonano, umwe mu miti ni ugukora imibonano kenshi, kuko uko ubikora kenshi ukarangiza niko byongera iruba
Ongera usome iyi nkuru: Mugore dore ibyiza wungukira mu kurangiza
Umunabi
Ibi byo bizwi na benshi ko umugore utarangije ahorana umunabi n’umushiha. Ibi kandi bigendana na kwa kuribwa no kubabara. Nkuko Naomi Wolf abivuga, abagore batarangiza bahorana agahinda, umunabi, kwiheba no kwigunga kenshi bituruka ku igabanyuka rya dopamine. Ibi binatera kwitakariza icyizere wumva ko utameze nk’abandi cyangwa ko umugabo wawe adashoboye, bikaba byanaviramo bamwe gucana inyuma bajya kumva niba hari uwatuma babasha koko kurangiza nk’uko babyumvana abandi
Ibyago byo guhorana infection
Ubushakashatsi bunyuranye bwakozwe na Joann Ellison Rodgers bwerekana ko kurangiza bigabanya ibyago byo kwandura mikorobi zinyuranye cyane cyane ubwandu bw’umuyoboro w’inkari aho bituma mikorobi mbi zisohoka mu gitsina. Iyo rero utarangije izi mikorobi zibona indiri yazo nuko ibyago byo guhorana ubu bwandu bikiyongera
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Kurangiza ni byiza ku mpande zombi[/caption]Dusoza
Kurangiza ni byiza haba ku mugore no ku mugabo. Ku mugore bimwongerera ibyishimo, bimurinda ibi tumaze kuvuga hejuru hano naho ku mugabo bimwongerera agaciro n’ishema mu rugo kandi erega gufatanya n’undi urugendo ukamusiga mu nzira ni ubugwari.
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